I’m Sick of Seeing Black Women Silenced in School Leadership

Mar 7, 2018 12:00:00 AM


"Aggressive," "strong-willed," "passionate." Those words have been falsely labeled as simple descriptors. In actuality, they are evidence of the continued sexism and racism that plagues our society. Women in leadership have always faced adversity and are still seen as second-rate citizens in our country. We see this play out on a national level, but we also see this through daily interactions with those of privilege. Naively and ignorantly, I believed that we as women shared the same experience. It wasn’t until I was under the leadership of an incredible Black female leader that I realized I was horribly wrong. During my three years as a middle school English teacher in Tulsa, Oklahoma, I had the opportunity to work under the tutelage of a phenomenal Black female principal. She embodied the vision of not only equality but equity for our scholars, and she specifically combated the school-to-prison-pipeline narrative through our restorative justice program. She worked tirelessly and fiercely on behalf of her students. Yet, through several interactions and conversations I observed, she was unfairly labeled.

Too Pushy and Difficult To Work With

As a Black woman in an area dominated by White men and women, her experience is utterly different than those who enjoy the perks of privilege and one all too well known by her fellow Black women leaders. One such example that comes to mind is a meeting I attended as a special education teacher. Our principal was explaining to a district-level worker (a White female) that one of our scholars needed additional behavioral assistance due to several concerning situations which our school was not qualified to address. We were then told the district did not have the financial resources to help “all students,” and we would have to make due. As our principal was advocating for our scholar, the employee begins to talk over her, turns to me and asks me to "reason with her." [pullquote position="right"]I can’t help but wonder if our principal had been White or male, would she have been deemed as "unreasonable"?[/pullquote] As I’ve known our principal and as we’ve discussed her experiences as a Black female leader, she’s shared various memories that she’s given me permission to share. She recalls a time when she had to ask the assistant principal, an African-American man, to lead certain conversations with district-level employees because she knew her voice would not be heard and our scholars would lose opportunities as a result. She also describes a conversation with another Black woman who told her that her long braids were "unprofessional" for a principal. Too often to count, she’s been told by fellow colleagues that her voice is "too stern" or her approach is "too dominant." She has faced discrimination from all sides, and yet she still continues. When I asked her why she remains committed to her work as a principal in Tulsa, she said, "I want our young Black women to know they don’t have to change who they are because of what our society tells them to be. They may not be accepted for who they are, but that is not their responsibility. They need to see Black women in leadership who refuse to let prejudice dictate how they will live their life. I want them to own who they are because we need them." It is not the responsibility of Black women to tailor who they are and how they express themselves because of our White and male-dominated society. It is not the right of others to label anyone as "too much" of anything. We need Black women in leadership. Our country is evidence of that right now. We need our young, Black, female scholars to see their reflection in leadership and to see how each of them can make our nation better.
An original version of this post appeared on the Black Wall Street Times as The Purposeful Silencing of Black Women in Educational Leadership.

Becca Lais

Becca Lais is a graduate student at the University of Oklahoma-Tulsa and former Tulsa-based member of Teach For America, where she taught sixth- through eighth-grade students. She received her undergraduate in peace studies, gender studies and philosophy. She plans to use her masters to work in advocacy and community practice. She is a proud feminist, and she is dedicated to fighting for equality and equity. She believes in empowering the youth to use their voice for change and justice in their own lives and in their community.

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