“Any situation in which some men prevent others from engaging in the process of inquiry is one of violence…to alienate humans from their own decision making is to change them into objects.”—Paulo Freire
As a Black mom with children in public schools, it troubles me to learn that you, Reverend Al Sharpton, have just declared war against Black, Brown and poor parents who choose to put the safety, education and overall wellbeing of their children and all children above everything else, especially “pay to play,” quid pro quo, partisan politics! https://twitter.com/TheRevAl/status/888143712131448832 I have met you on several occasions and I have the utmost respect for your leadership even if I do not always agree with you, I respect your documented history of standing on the side of equity and equality for the Black, Brown and poor community, even if you stood alone! That takes courage.
What Would Your 'Real' Sister Have to Say?
Would your “real” sister or other community member see your child or any child sexually, physically and mentally abused in a public school and say and do nothing? The “sistahs” I know would not only say something if a child was being abused, they damn sure gonna do something! What about our Black and Brown babies in the child welfare and foster care system—they are already in a traumatic situation—who is fighting for them? They are our babies too! If there are ever issues or questions about their safety in our public schools they should have the right to choose another option so they aren’t re-traumatized! I live in Connecticut, where our laws make it safe for sexual assault and other forms of child abuse, at the hands of school employees, to happen freely in our public schools without fear of arrest or prosecution. Are you Rev. Al Sharpton saying parents in Connecticut like me, shouldn’t have the right to choose to keep their children safe, regardless if the classroom “appears” to be integrated or segregated? No child can effectively learn in any classroom where there are issues of safety or disparate treatment because of the color of their skin or the zip-code they live. Based on your words growing up, you know first hand, what it is like to be denied an opportunity because of the color of your skin.
Our Fight Should Be About Our Babies
What happened to your equality for all children “battle cry” of 2011 when you rallied in support of single Black mothers like Kelley Williams-Bolar of Akron Ohio, the mother of two daughters who was given jail time for sending her children to her father’s school district a few miles away because she was concerned for her children’s safety. Or, Tanya McDowell of Connecticut who was arrested and convicted for sending her 5-year-old Black male to the school district near the shelter where she once lived! You heard first hand from both Kelley Williams-Bolar and Tanya McDowell and you know the only thing they were guilty of was loving their children and doing what they felt was in the best interest of their children. Yet, “your sister” Randi Weingarten, year after year, fights to keep the very education system in place, through pay to play practices, that arrested them in the first damn place! So Rev. Al Sharpton, I ask again, why fight against a parent’s right to choose what is in the best interest of their children? Do you believe parents' voices even matter? To refresh your memory, Kelley Williams-Bolar and I met you in September of 2015, at the 45th Congressional Black Caucus (CBC) Legislative Conference in Washington, D.C.
An original version of this post appeared on Gwen Samuel.

Gwen Samuel is the founder and president of the Connecticut Parents Union. She is an advocate for the educational rights of all children to ensure that race, zip code and socio-economic status are not predictors of student success. A parent of two children in Connecticut Public Schools, she also is the founder of two volunteer organizations in ...